Oh, My God: Sex and Spirituality

Faith-friendly. Sex-positive. Shame-free.

The Merry Month of May…sturbation

Traditional May Celebrations Traditionally, the month of May marks the return of springtime in the Northern Hemisphere. The first day of May, also known as May Day, is still celebrated in many parts of the globe. The ancient Celts called May Day “Beltane”—the day halfway between spring and summer as the time of fecundity and [...]

What Will People Say?

Waaay back in the 80s, when I was but a teenager in high school, I declared to my mom, "When I grow up, I'm going to be Dr. Ruth [Westheimer]." My mom simply chuckled and offered a humoring "Okay, Hon." But, I meant it. I really wanted to be like Dr. Ruth. Her diminutive build, [...]

Supporting Adult Sex and Pleasure Education

Sex education in America sucks. And, not in a good way. Many women, rather than embracing and celebrating their feminine sexuality, are suffering with feelings of shame and disdain because of distressing religious judgment and crappity-crap cultural conditioning. These women are then expected to enter into long-lasting relationships and marriages and react as authentic sensual beings. Shyuh, [...]

Fantasize Your Way to More Fulfilling Sex, Part 2

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Engaging in intimate fantasies¹ in order to heighten our sexual desires is very common; only, no one wants to admit to it, not even to their closest friends.

Fantasize Your Way to More Fulfilling Sex, Part 1

Engaging in sexual fantasy to heighten our sexual desires is a good thing. But, I know, there are some readers who would disagree with me for a variety of reasons...

Sexual Humility vs. Humiliation and Sexual Shame

Sexual Shame as a byproduct of humiliation.