Engaging in intimate fantasies¹ in order to heighten our sexual desires is very common; only, no one wants to admit to it, not even to their closest friends.
Engaging in sexual fantasy to heighten our sexual desires is a good thing. But, I know, there are some readers who would disagree with me for a variety of reasons...
Sexual Shame as a byproduct of humiliation.
Are you ever worried that your most secret thoughts and fantasies aren't normal? Let me tell you a little secret, Girlfriends. Working in an adult toy boutique has taught me more about human sexuality than most of the articles and books I've read over the past thirty-odd years on the subject; and if there's one [...]