About Micki



Micki as a human being…

I am deeply spiritual; and, although I was ordained as a non-denominational Christian minister and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian beliefs, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their gender, race, personal philosophies, sexual orientations and/or practices, religious beliefs and/or disbelief, and world-views.

Micki as a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have almost 20 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full credentials and experience scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I am currently completing my training through the Incarnation Institute of Sex and Faith. I also work part-time at an adult novelty boutique in order to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown-up toy box. There, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being.

Through Micki Allen Coaching and Education, I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Zoom, and occasional face-to-face sessions). I also offer small group workshops centered around sex education. I am a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school where you can join my educational live streams centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics, including communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health. I also give quarterly instruction on various sex-positive, pleasure-related topics. My most recent topics included “BDSM for Nice Girls,” “Fantasy and the Pleasures of Power Exchange,” and “Backdoor Play: External and Internal Pleasure Techniques.”

Lastly, for those women who don’t want coaching but just want someone who won’t question or judge them for being who they are, who want to talk to about the more intimate and private areas of their lives without fear of negative repercussions, I offer a professional Personal Confidante service.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen, a.k.a., my Spice, and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as husband and bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.