About Micki

As a human being…

I am as generous with love and compassion and as authentic and trustworthy a person as I can be, especially with my family, friends, co-workers, and clients. I am deeply spiritual; and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian origin, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their personal philosophies, religious beliefs, and world-views.

As a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have over 17 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I also currently work part-time at an adult novelty boutique to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown up toy box. Even there, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Skype, Zoom, or face-to-face sessions) and group workshops centered around sex education. I give quarterly instruction on various sex positive, pleasure related topics. My most recent topics included “BDSM for Nice Girls,” “Fantasy and the Pleasures of Power Exchange,” and “Butt Let’s Play: External and Internal Pleasure Techniques.”

Lastly, for those women who don’t want coaching but just want someone who won’t question or judge them for being who they are, who want to talk to about the more intimate and private areas of their lives without fear of negative repercussions, I offer a professional Personal Confidante service.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as Spice and Bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.

Clan Allen circa 2015
Clan Allen, establish 1993 | Photo credit: The Master’s Touch Photography