About Micki

from the desk of Micki Allen

I first began educating people about human sexuality in 1990 when I joined the South Plains AIDS Resource Center, one of the first AIDS outreach programs in West Texas, as a student liaison.

While teaching Literature and Grammar at a private Christian high school, I was appointed to teach sex education in health classes, limited to an abstinence-only curriculum. It was at that time I came to understand what a disservice it was to young people. I realized that conditioning impressionable minds to view sex as something taboo and akin to only disease and unwanted pregnancy could have devastating and long-lasting ill-effects.

I’ve since made it my primary mission to repair the misrepresentation that I, and countless other well-meaning adults, presented concerning Christian sexuality.  I now foster and encourage Christians in overcoming social conditioning and religious repression in order to begin building and maintaining healthy intimate relationships.

My spice and I have been married since 1993 and together have co-created seven fiercely independent and fantastic children.

Clan Allen, est. 1993

My approach to coaching is realistic but fun, educational, holistic, and science-based. I encourage my clients in building their interpersonal relationships and towards embracing healthy, vibrant sexuality.

If you are interested in learning more, I’m here for you. I encourage you to contact me.


I am a certified Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching as well as Sexual Health & Pleasure Educator and Consultant. I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I also offer educational workshops centered around sexual health and pleasure. Bachelorettes and newly-marrieds find my workshop most helpful. 

I am a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics including sex and religion, healthy communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health.

I am an ordained non-denominational Christian Minister, but I am not a preacher. I do not preach and I do not proselytize, and therefore I am not beholden to any particular faith, church, or religious institution. That said, I must keep confidential any and all conversations with my clients in order to maintain my position in good standing. Which is great news for those who are concerned about confidentiality. We will sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA) before we begin working together.

I work with couples of all faiths, spiritualities, and ethical moral codes. My goal is to simply share the love, as I see it, of our Creator with the compassion of Jesus Christ. That is the standard to which I hold only myself. Just to be very clear, I abide neither shame nor blame. Period. Full stop.

“I’m holding a space for you.”