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First things first.

If you’re looking to work with a Christian sex and relationship coach who will use religion or the Bible as a weapon against you, I’m afraid you’ll have to look somewhere else. I have a very strict no-shame, no-blame policy. I want to liberate people from cultural and religious repression, not bash them with exclusion and judgment.

Now, if you’re still with me…

Building and maintaining strong, healthy, meaningful relationships is not an instant, effortless process because Life is not an instant, effortless process. And much of the time, the how-tos of building these relationships can be a complete mystery to us because love is rarely logical!

As a certified life coach and sex educator working with women, including female-of-center womxn, from all walks of life to help them clarify their own intimate needs and boundaries, my purpose is to offer engaging and realistic intimacy and relationship guidance. But, it doesn’t have to boring! Relying on the Christian gospel of abundant love, joy, and grace, I’m eager to encourage and instruct you (and your partner) with respect to: advanced sexual intimacy and pleasure techniques; solid, respectful communication skills; and, delightfully sex-and-body-positive philosophies — all in order to strengthen and invigorate your most intimate personal and interpersonal relationships.

It takes a lot of passion, planning, tools, strategy and commitment to building anything that can withstand the test of time. I’m here to offer the planning, tools, and strategies, and the rest will be up to you and your higher power. The good news is that someone with professional and personal experience is here for you. I am here for you. Huzzah!

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You may read Micki’s Mission Statement here.

About Micki


Micki as a human being…

I am deeply spiritual; and, although I was ordained as a non-denominational Christian minister and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian beliefs, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their gender, race, personal philosophies, sexual orientations and/or practices, religious beliefs and/or disbelief, and world-views.

Micki as a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have almost 20 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full credentials and experience scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I am currently completing my training through the Incarnation Institute of Sex and Faith.

Through Micki Allen Coaching and Education, I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Zoom, and occasional face-to-face sessions). I also work part-time at an adult novelty boutique in order to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown-up toy box. There, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I also offer small group workshops centered around sex education.

I am a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school where you can join my educational live streams centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics, including communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen, a.k.a., my Spice, and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as husband and bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.


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Intimacy and Relationship Coaching

As your Intimacy and Relationship Coach, I offer you an objective, sympathetic, and non-judgmental ear. I am trained to offer you insight, tools, and encouragement towards the relationship you desire … whether that relationship is the one you have with your own true self or with your significant other. I am here to help you define the truest desires of your heart specific to this particular stage of your life and move forward with passion and purpose. Learn more about this service here.


Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education

The growth our human sexuality is an ongoing process. As we mature in life, so should our understanding of our most intimate needs and desires. Adult sexuality and pleasure education is real and really needed. It is a sad fact that the population, in general, is woefully under-served when it comes to teaching sexual health and well being by both public and private institutions of learning. Whatever your current level of knowledge, I am here to fill in the gaps for you. Learn more about this service here.

My own life experience, especially as a wife for nearly a quarter of a century and a “mom of many,” combined with over twenty years of professional mentoring experience, finds me in a rather unique position to truly empathize with women from many walks of Life. You may find my Mission Statement here.

It is said that “it is the Start that stops most people.” By being here, you’ve already taken the first step. Why not continue your journey towards a more confident, joyful, and sensual relationship today?

Your first Introductory or Discovery call is completely FREE!

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The Legal Stuff: I am not a Licensed Therapist. Please call a licensed professional for medical, mental, or emergency services. All submissions, requests, and clients are subject to approval. Pricing and services subject to change. Terms of Service, Disclaimers, and Non-Disclosure Agreements are available upon request.