Ready to Revive your Intimate Relationship?


Relationships can be hard work, can’t they?

But they can can also be incredibly rewarding.

Building and maintaining healthy, meaningful relationships is not an instant, effortless process because Life is not an instant, effortless process. And much of the time, the how-tos of building healthy and meaningful relationships can be a complete mystery to us. Love is rarely logical!

As a certified life coach and sex educator working with women from all walks of life to help them clarify their own intimate needs and boundaries, my purpose is to offer real intimacy and relationship guidance — realistic, practical, strategic guidance. Not woo-woo magical thinking. No ridiculously fast-track short-cuts to utter bliss in 72 hours or less. You’ll never hear me quixotically promise to have him eating out of the palm of your hand “practically overnight!” There are a lot of coaches out there willing to offer you a Quick Fix, but this gal ain’t one of them.

Rome wasn’t built in a day. It takes a lot of passion, planning, tools, strategy and commitment to build anything that can withstand. I’m here to offer the planning, tools, and strategies, the rest will be up to you. The good news is that someone with professional and personal experience is here for you. I am here for you.

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You may read Micki’s Mission Statement here.

About Micki

As a human being…

I am as generous with love and compassion and as authentic and trustworthy a person as I can be, especially with my family, friends, co-workers, and clients. I am deeply spiritual; and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian origin, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their personal philosophies, religious beliefs, and world-views.

As a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have over 17 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I also currently work part-time at an adult novelty boutique to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown up toy box. Even there, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Skype, Zoom, or face-to-face sessions) and group workshops centered around sex education. I give quarterly instruction on various sex positive, pleasure related topics. My most recent topics included “BDSM for Nice Girls,” “Fantasy and the Pleasures of Power Exchange,” and “Butt Let’s Play: External and Internal Pleasure Techniques.”

Lastly, for those women who don’t want coaching but just want someone who won’t question or judge them for being who they are, who want to talk to about the more intimate and private areas of their lives without fear of negative repercussions, I offer a professional Personal Confidante service.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as Spice and Bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.

Clan Allen circa 2015
Clan Allen, establish 1993 | Photo credit: The Master’s Touch Photography


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Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other…


Intimacy and Relationship Coaching

As your Intimacy and Relationship Coach, I offer you an objective, sympathetic, and non-judgmental ear. I am trained to offer you insight, tools, and encouragement towards the relationship you desire … whether that relationship be the one you have with your own true self or with your significant other. I am here to help you define the truest desires of your heart specific to this particular stage of your life and move forward with passion and purpose. Learn more about this service here.

Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education

The growth our our human sexuality is an ongoing process. As we mature in life, so should our understanding of our most intimate needs and desires. Adult sexuality and pleasure education is real, and really needed. It is a sad fact that the population in general is woefully under-served when it comes to teaching sexual health and well being by both public and private institutions of learning. Whatever your current level of knowledge, I am here to fill in the gaps for you. Learn more about this service here.

My own life experience, especially as a wife for nearly a quarter of a century and a “mom of many,” combined with over twenty years of professional mentoring experience, finds me in a rather unique position to truly empathize with women from many walks of Life. You may find my Mission Statement here.

It is said that “it is the Start that stops most people.” By being here, you’ve already taken the first step. Why not continue your journey towards a more confident, joyful, and sensual relationship today?



Your first Introductory or Discovery call is completely FREE!