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Building and maintaining strong, healthy, meaningful relationships is not an instant, effortless process because Life is not an instant, effortless process. And much of the time, the how-tos of building these relationships can be a complete mystery to us because love is rarely logical!

As a certified life coach specializing in sex and relationships, my purpose is to offer engaging and realistic intimacy and relationship guidance. But, it doesn’t have to boring! Relying on the Christian gospel of abundant love, joy, and grace, I’m eager to encourage and instruct you (and your partner) with respect to: advanced sexual intimacy and pleasure techniques; solid, respectful communication skills; and, delightfully sex-and-body-positive philosophies — all in order to strengthen and invigorate your most intimate personal and interpersonal relationships.

It takes a lot of passion, planning, tools, strategy and commitment to building anything that can withstand the test of time. I’m here to offer the planning, tools, and strategies, and the rest will be up to you and your higher power. The good news is that someone with professional and personal experience is here for you. I am here for you.

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About Micki


Micki as a human being…

I am deeply spiritual; and, although I was ordained as a non-denominational Christian minister and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian beliefs, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their gender, race, personal philosophies, sexual orientations and/or practices, religious beliefs and/or disbelief, and world-views.

Micki as a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have almost 20 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full credentials and experience scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I am currently completing my training through the Incarnation Institute of Sex and Faith.

Through Micki Allen Coaching and Education, I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Zoom, and occasional face-to-face sessions). I also work part-time at an adult novelty boutique in order to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown-up toy box. There, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I also offer small group workshops centered around sex education.

I am a Pleasure Professional affiliated with O.school where you can join my educational live streams centering on a host of different sex and relationship topics, including communication, creating and re-creating partnered relationship visions, pleasure techniques, and sexual health.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen, a.k.a., my Spice, and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as husband and bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.


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Intimacy and Relationship Coaching

As your Intimacy and Relationship Coach, I offer you an objective, sympathetic, and non-judgmental ear. I am trained to offer you insight, tools, and encouragement towards the relationship you desire … whether that relationship is the one you have with your own true self or with your significant other. I am here to help you define the truest desires of your heart specific to this particular stage of your life and move forward with passion and purpose. Learn more about this service here.


Your first Introductory or Discovery call is completely FREE!

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The Legal Stuff: I am not a Licensed Therapist. Please call a licensed professional for medical, mental, or emergency services. All submissions, requests, and clients are subject to approval. Pricing and services subject to change. Terms of Service, Disclaimers, and Non-Disclosure Agreements are available upon request.