Well, hello there, Lovable.



My interview with The Professionals Roundtable, ABM-FM


First things first.

If you’re looking to work with a Christian coach who will use religion or the Bible as a weapon against you, I’m afraid you’ll have to look somewhere else. I have a very strict no-shame, no-blame policy. I want to liberate people from cultural and religious repression, not bash them with exclusion and judgment.

Now, if you’re still with me…

Building and maintaining strong, healthy, meaningful relationships is not an instant, effortless process because Life is not an instant, effortless process. And much of the time, the how-tos of building these relationships can be a complete mystery to us because love is rarely logical!

As a certified life coach and sex educator working with women, including female-of-center womxn, from all walks of life to help them clarify their own intimate needs and boundaries, my purpose is to offer engaging and realistic intimacy and relationship guidance. But, it doesn’t have to boring! Relying on the Christian gospel of abundant love, joy, and grace, I’m eager to encourage and instruct you (and your partner) with respect to: advanced sexual intimacy and pleasure techniques; solid, respectful communication skills; and, delightfully sex-and-body-positive philosophies — all in order to strengthen and invigorate your most intimate personal and interpersonal relationships.

Rome wasn’t built in a day. It takes a lot of passion, planning, tools, strategy and commitment to building anything that can withstand the test of time. I’m here to offer the planning, tools, and strategies, and the rest will be up to you and your higher power. The good news is that someone with professional and personal experience is here for you. I am here for you. Huzzah!

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You may read Micki’s Mission Statement here.

About Micki

Are you ever afraid of losing your lover?

Do you feel threatened by the thought of your partner seeking the passion they secretly desire from someone else?

Does the thought of your family being ripped apart by infidelity scare the hell out of you?

Are you afraid you aren’t “enough” for your lover?

I know exactly how that feels. I felt the same way, too. For years I lived in constant fear. Infidelity had shattered the hearts of practically every adult in my young life; and, I swore to myself that I would never allow that pattern to be repeated in my own life, my own family.

I’ve gone from fearful to fun, frisky, and fierce. You can, too.

I’ve spent my entire adult life reversing the shame and blame surrounding sexuality and arming myself with the knowledge and resources of intimacy and relationships in order to guarantee myself that I would never lose the man I love and subsequently watch my family fall apart due to sexual ignorance or apprehension.


Now, I’m on a mission to help others who may struggle with similar doubts and fears. Because living in fear sucks the energy and joy right out of you.  I no longer live in fear. And, you shouldn’t either. I’ve gone from fearful to fun, frisky, and fierce. You can, too.

Micki as a human being…

I am deeply spiritual; and while my personal philosophy stems from Judeo-Christian origin, I warmly embrace all fellow human beings regardless of their gender, race, personal philosophies, sexual orientations and/or practices, religious beliefs and/or disbeliefs, and world-views.

Micki as a human doing…

I am a mentor and an educator by training, experience, and profession. I am a lifelong learner and have earned numerous certifications and credentials, my most recent being Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education from the Institute of Sexual Education and Enlightenment. I have over 17 years of practical mentoring experience. If you’re a “show me the stats” kinda gal who likes facts and figures, head on over to my professional LinkedIn profile for the full scoop.

I am a certified Strategic Life Coach specializing in Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I also currently work part-time at an adult novelty boutique to keep current on the wide array of sexy gadgets and gizmos available for the grown up toy box. Even there, I assist individuals and couples in clarifying their own intimate needs and boundaries, suggesting the tools they need to experience exceptional sexual health and well-being. I offer one-on-one consultations (via phone, Zoom, or face-to-face sessions) and group workshops centered around sex education. I give quarterly instruction on various sex positive, pleasure related topics. My most recent topics included “BDSM for Nice Girls,” “Fantasy and the Pleasures of Power Exchange,” and “Backdoor Play: External and Internal Pleasure Techniques.”

Lastly, for those women who don’t want coaching but just want someone who won’t question or judge them for being who they are, who want to talk to about the more intimate and private areas of their lives without fear of negative repercussions, I offer a professional Personal Confidante service.

Keeping my priorities in check…

I am first and foremost a wife and mother.  Mr. Allen, a.k.a., my Spice, and I met in January of 1990 and officially began our family circus as Clan Allen in 1993. I am grateful to say that in 2018, we will celebrate our first quarter century as husband and bride. We have co-created seven amazing,  delightfully diverse, and fiercely independent children.


Work With Me


Intimacy and Relationship Coaching

As your Intimacy and Relationship Coach, I offer you an objective, sympathetic, and non-judgmental ear. I am trained to offer you insight, tools, and encouragement towards the relationship you desire … whether that relationship is the one you have with your own true self or with your significant other. I am here to help you define the truest desires of your heart specific to this particular stage of your life and move forward with passion and purpose. Learn more about this service here.


Advanced Sexuality and Pleasure Education

The growth our human sexuality is an ongoing process. As we mature in life, so should our understanding of our most intimate needs and desires. Adult sexuality and pleasure education is real and really needed. It is a sad fact that the population, in general, is woefully under-served when it comes to teaching sexual health and well being by both public and private institutions of learning. Whatever your current level of knowledge, I am here to fill in the gaps for you. Learn more about this service here.

My own life experience, especially as a wife for nearly a quarter of a century and a “mom of many,” combined with over twenty years of professional mentoring experience, finds me in a rather unique position to truly empathize with women from many walks of Life. You may find my Mission Statement here.

It is said that “it is the Start that stops most people.” By being here, you’ve already taken the first step. Why not continue your journey towards a more confident, joyful, and sensual relationship today?

Your first Introductory or Discovery call is completely FREE!

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The Legal Stuff: I am not a Licensed Therapist. Please call a licensed professional for medical, mental, or emergency services. All submissions, requests, and clients are subject to approval. Pricing and services subject to change. Terms of Service, Disclaimers, and Non-Disclosure Agreements are available upon request.